Alil about me..

My photo
Im a Kenyan with interest in Marketing and with a passion to sell. I love taking up challenges that crack me brain out ;) im not all that in writing but will try keep it simple and brief for all my fans and followers out there.... more about me, follow me ;) @ahmedsalims

Monday, November 8

Its takes 2 to.....

Women have changed in today's world... A point discussed by many including myself!! Long gone are the days a man would love the shyness of a woman. Gone are the days a man will have to earn a woman's love respect and heart. Iv talked to many people and whenever this issue is raised, I tend to get the same response "no more women out there.." Really??? What has caused this? What's different??
I'll tell you what, I think Its the so called new era new life new this new that..that's changed stuff!!
My honest opinion, WOMEN are stronger and must be respected no matter what!! BUT, she needs to acknowledge a MAN's role in her life!!! I'm not saying we go back to the days where a man would hit a woman or sit on her head command order etc... NO!! Just looking back and accepting the fact, despite her success her fortune, her life; a man will always be a man!!! A man has a superior position that not necessarily needs to be bragged about but just acknowledged and respected!!!
If we go back to our religion..any for this matter- they all talk about equality but also point out a Man's position in a woman's life!! That respected we won't be saying what we are saying. Women would walk with pride and dignity, men would respect their wives and treasure the woman they have.
Men are dogs but who are they dogging with??
Let's turn back to being our true unique selves that our Almighty created us for....
Peace!!!
Ps: no offence to anyone, just speaking out my mind!!!
Posted by at

2 comments:

  1. mmnjugNovember 8, 2010 at 6:25 AM

    You have made a nice post and pitch on the role of man and women. You see, respect is always a two-way traffic, give and take. The minute people understand that, that's the day all these stereotyping of man and woman will start reducing. But until then, we are in this mix for quite some time.

    ReplyDelete
  2. UnknownNovember 8, 2010 at 11:24 PM

    love it!!! couldn't agree more... true, men don't mind if u've yourself all together- u can have your own money, but once the man who is pursuing ur affection is neva allowed by u to fulfil his destiny as a man_i.e to provide & protect, then how can he possibly see himself professing his love to a woman who has not allowed him to feel like a man???

    We(women) need to understand that whatever we've acquired & gained financially & educationally can never be bigger than the relationship with the man.

    Mind you, men do appreciate when women treat them like men, letting them know that we need them is way bigger to them than anything.

    Hence, appreciating a man, not weakenning his confidence is the best way to get the best of him & the best way to appreciate him is by letting him be a MAN!!

    ReplyDelete

Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom)